I have gotten to the point where I absolutely hate, loathe, and despise flying. Most of the time I "fit", though it's always cramped. In fact, I seldom need a belt extender on big planes, just on the small "puddle jumper" planes (25-30 seats total).
But I get SO stressed about so much when I fly:
- whether I'll need a belt extender, or whether I'll need to put the regular belt under my belly apron (or hide the end so the steward/ess thinks it's connected even if it's not)
- Whether I'll fit the seat
- Whether I'll have a neighbor, or can raise the arm beside me
- Whether I'll "spread out" into my neighbor's seat (especially bad if the neighbor is overweight, too)
- the looks the steward/ess invariably gives me
- Whether I'll even be able to feel my hips by the time the trip is over, because they go numb from being squished so long
- The absolute dread of having to get up and use the toilet
- Not bothering to get a drink or snack, not because I'm dieting but because I can't get the tray table down flat because of my belly
- The awkwardness of getting up and getting my stuff after a long trip when I've tried for an hour or more not to move at all
I travel twice a year for work, and I
hate it. Next week, I'm going to North Carolina, and have chosen to drive the whole way just to avoid the plane situation. Not looking forward to the drive itself, but I'm amazed at how absolutely not-stressed I am about size issues during the trip.
That being said, it's NEVER as bad as I imagine it will be. It's just one of the situations where my weight really limits my comfort, and I can't ignore it as much as I usually do. /sigh
You will probably be absolutely fine. LIke others have said, check out your flight and see what size the seats are. Most are bigger than they used to be, as are the belts.