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Originally Posted by milliondollarbbw
I think Maury Povich is more along the lines of drama---but Precious? That is more of a heart wrenching, soul searching, glimpse into a way of life that was really true during that time period and sadly, even now.
heart wrenching, soul searching, glimpse into a way of life.... that's the very DEFINITION of drama
Drama
1 a : a composition in verse or prose intended to portray life or character or to tell a story usually involving conflicts and emotions through action and dialogue and typically designed for theatrical performance : play — compare closet drama b : a movie or television production with characteristics (as conflict) of a serious play; broadly : a play, movie, or television production with a serious tone or subject <a police drama>
2 : dramatic art, literature, or affairs
3 a : a state, situation, or series of events involving interesting or intense conflict of forces b : dramatic state, effect, or quality <the drama of the courtroom proceedings>
There's nothing wrong with a person setting emotional boundaries and limiting the amount of "drama" and the kind of "drama" they voluntarily sign up for. No matter how great a movie, or book, there are times in life when you have so much emotion in your real life, that you don't need to artificially induce more.
As I said, I'm not particularly comfortable seeing tear jerkers in the movie theater. I was raised to believe that intense emotional displays are extremely private. In the theater, it makes me very uncomfortable to not only watch the raw emotions on the screen, but to also be exposed to the raw emotions of many strangers while exposing my own, as well. I don't particularly enjoy crying in public, or watching strangers cry, either - and that's not a terrible thing.
I love dramatic literary novels, and because it's a private experience. I tend to feel MORE emotional attachment to the characters because of the very private nature of the novel. You vicariously become the characters, or at least a close personal friend, family member or enemy (depending on the book) of the characters.
What's weird, is I don't even mind crying in public if I'm reading a book (because the book creates a private little bubble for me. I'm in the world of the book, and separated from the "real" world while I'm emeshed in the book).
I'm sure some people are able to feel that way in a movie - a detachment from the people around them - but that doesn't work very well for me, unless the theater is very sparsely populated, and people are not seated too close (I hate when there are six people in a theater and someone decides they need to sit right in front or behind you).
My husband dislikes the theater environment much more than I do, so we tend to rent movies. We also do tend to watch more comedies (dark comedies, usually though), action-adventure and lighter drama, because the books we read are much deeper.
I'm far more likely to read Push than watch Precious, and probably will get more out of the book than the movie, but that's just because I enjoy, appreciate and prefer the one art form (written fiction) over the other.