Nish: We are SO on the same page right now
I hate it when people say "good hair." Having hair is good as far as I'm concerned. I've gotten the "you can go natural because you have 'good hair'" on several occasions. It makes me want to
! But I realize too that my mother never permed my hair and doesn't have one. You base your beliefs on what you grew up with. Me and all of my cousins had the option to perm our hair when we were in our teens. All of us tried it, and a couple of us have since gone natural. I love my hair. I am beautifully and wonderfully made.
Heather: Women are judgemental of other women. Period. If it's not your hair, it'll be something else. If there shallow/ignorant enough to judge you based on your hair, what makes you think they won't pick on you for other stuff too? It's kinda like how they say women dress for other women, not men.