I am having a mental argument with myself...
On one hand, I want to tell my family and friends that I'm on this venture toward being more healthy and losing weight again, because I feel like I need the support, and the encouragement is helfpul, sometimes. My problem is that when I do this, I feel like my family and some friends scrutinize everything I do. Even when I am doing well, my mom will ask questions like, "What healthy things did you have today? Is that dressing low fat? Did you exercise?" I know she's trying to be supportive, but it is extremely annoying- among other emotions that it stirs up. And, as mentioned in other posts by other folks, there are those who watch everything that you eat, and everyone has their ideas of what I should be doing to make it happen, etc. I have a really hard time dealing with that, and it makes me feel like going and eating a tub of ice cream , which is of course completely unreasonable, but... what emotional response is reasonable, right?
I feel like it's my personal journey and I can only do what works for me, but it's not a secret, and it shouldn't have to be a secret... but I shouldn't have to do it under such great scrutiny. So... I don't know whether to share it and deal with the frustrations, or just plod onward and keep it to myself.
Thoughts???