Hi All--
I don't know if this is just me --I may be overly sensitive but here goes--
Yesterday my husband and I went to a party- I have been really good about my diet but yesterday had 3 baked chicken wings, 2 beers, and a couple of chips. I didn't feel out of control as I walked past the fried chicken, nachos, brownies, cookies and etc. I had brought some apple slices with me but didn't eat them. At the party my husband saw me eating and said "what are you doing" so I explained that I wanted the wings.
He must have made at least 3 comments about what I was eating-- I haven't figured out if he was trying to help me and be supportive or just judge me to make me feel bad.
In our marriage my weight has never really been an issue he is overweight now (not when we first got married) but has never seemed to care what I weighed, ate or what diet I was on that week.
I hate to tell people like him or my parents that I am on a diet because when I choose to eat something I don't require their input--
I am not sure if he was trying to help me or humiliate me??