I was not real sure where to post this, but thought since I have been maintaining for a few months I would try here.
Has anyone else dealt with a partner who blames your weight loss for all your marital woes? Since losing my weight my husband has never once said I look good, but instead I hear on a daily basis, "who are you trying to impress?" and every possible variation of that.
I can't seem to make him understand I did this for me and no one else. Do I enjoy looking good in my new body, heck yeah! I am a much more confidant person now and I think that scares the living bejesus out of him despite all my efforts to reassure him. I swear he would be happier if I regained the weight and wore dumpy clothes again.
How in the world do I battle this, or can I? I would love to hear experiences from others on this subject as I have about reached my ropes end.