Maybe Dan can share what his lightbulb moment wast.
I don't want to force my dbf to do anything he doesn't want to do. I thought that after he saw me lose weight he would want to join in on it-but he recently started with a new company and is very into his new job, and since he is literally one track minded when it comes to some things-he tends to ignore other things that need to be focused on! I'm glad he never ignores me!
He's just very unwilling to "give up" certain foods. So now, if he wants cheese on anything he has to grate it himself! I'm sure he's eating healthier as a result, but I know he'd lose so much if he did this plan!
Anway-I hope that the suggested plans work for those of your with complaint significant others!