Hi, fellow Beckies!
Is that the name that has "stuck"?
I have enjoyed catching up on posts and am so glad we are still gaining more Beckies.
Even though this week has been hectic, and even though I have been violating day 3......and let's not even talk about day 4.......lol.....no, I do want to address that, but another time.
I am trying to figure out if I am really violating the eating sitting down rule more than usual, or if I am just more aware of it since it is our focus this week. The good news is, even though I am doing it, I am keenly aware of it...and I have been able to catch myself at times and decide not to do it.
Credit moi....now, I think I had better not credit myself for eating sitting down while sitting
in the car...lol
I was thinking about Sue's question on helpful responses for the self-sabotaging about perfection. I am trying to remember who said so wisely, "Progress, not perfection", but it is a helpful response.
That perfection mentality is one of the biggest traps, one of the biggest mistake we make....
Let's brainstorm some helpful responses...OK, we didn't stick to our 1600 cal. plan. We have eaten some mouthfuls of "treats"....rather than thinking, "Oh, well, I will be perfect tomorrow".....
How about, "I ate more than I planned today, but not *that* much...certainly not enough to significantly gain. I can get right back on plan and over time, I can achieve my goal."...not a perfect response, but I do believe over time, these kinds of behaviors become more of a habit.
BillBE is pretty much living proof........not intended to put undue pressure on, friend, but it does seem that you are finding it easier, and more automatic; wouldn't you agree?
I share your passion, CoastalSue, for celebratory eating, eating with friends, etc. Planning ahead to control my eating when going to a party where there are tons and tons of great treats feels like "too much pain"...I think at this point if we could just do as Beck outlines, because "she said so"..that would be wise......just trust it for now.....it doesn't *have* to be forever.....and maybe it will get easier.
I do know that I have finally gotten under enough control to be getting hungry again, and it feels good! It really does...and food, even Kale, tastes really good. (well, if you put enough garlic on it....I can choke most anything down)