Dear Starving (may I call you that?? lol): Hang in there, just realize that this moment is only here momentarily. Here comes the next moment! And in that moment you are, (now were) successful - you didn't eat bad food or abuse your body with drugs, etc. Live moment to moment and tell yourself "Right now, I am going to love my body by treating it right." Don't worry about the previous moment... just keep working in the now and toward a better future.
Sounds simplistic, but it works. We could get into a huge
circle of guilt because of previous actions and feel we are worthless and therefore
deserve to treat ourselves as worthless.
Stop right there and do some cognitive behavioral therapy: Look in the mirror, deep into your eyes, don't flinch or look away, and say out loud one thing you like about yourself, then write it down on a list. Do this every day, add one more thing to the list, and re-read it often.
When you get frustrated put on loud music & dance like no one's watching, cause no one is, it's just for you. Get some sweat going and you will feel better, then take a hot shower and paint your nails. Works every time, and it's hard to open the potato chip bag with wet nails.
I hope I made you laugh a little bit... you probably have a lovely smile. Don't give up, you will get toward your goal again, but start with small ones first - not the "I want to lose 100 lbs," kind but "
Today I will eat healthy to fuel my body because I love me."
Liana