We were trying for a baby for about three years, i messed about on metformin for a couple of months, not good at taking pills and also the side-effects really made exercise tough coz i felt so tired and nauseous and bloated all the time. Ive always struggled with PCOS and weight.Ive never had regular cycles.I lost a bit of weight with just walking and fresh food and i remember sitting down and thinking, oh well if i cant ever have a baby i best make the most of the life i do have and i accepted the fact. three weeks later i was sick as a dog and got the shock of my life when i found out i was pregnant. I had a healthy baby boy with no complications during pregnancy or birth so I know I am blessed. Put on even more weight since then so at 310lbs(!!), im desperate to lose weight to try again, I think he needs a little bro or sis.He'll be three in June. I think putting it out of my mind and just having fun along with losing weight helped.