ironically after sharing at a meeting saturday how great it is that my sponsor is able to work with me even though she follows OA/HOW and I do not... I got a call from her today letting me know she is no longer able to sponsor me if I am not following HOW.
I am very disappointed and I feel a little misled since she is someone I met at a regular meeting (who volunteered to sponsor)...it doesn't seem quite honest that she is willing to sponsor but only if the sponsee if following HOW...something she did not tell me before now.
I've only been working with her for the last 3-1/2 weeks so it hasn't been that long but I really clicked with her. I am not interested in following HOW...it's just too much for me at this stage in my life. I've been using the suggested food plan from the dignity of choice lit and so far I'm doing okay (i've lost 16 lbs. since Jan. 21)
I guess I'm posting just to be in touch so I don't use this as an opportunity to feel hurt, betrayed and go binging.