I agree with the others, exactly what you told us! My hubby brews beer and is a wonderful cook, I just explained to him how important this was to me and that I really needed his support. I explained to him that I was using points to keep track of what I eat and whatever he saw my eating, be it carrot sticks or a carefully planned treat of a cookie, I had thought it through. (Basically explained that I didn't need either "is that all you're going to eat?" or "are you sure you need to eat that?" comments.)
It was also important for me to explain to him that, at meals, it was important for me to be the one to put the food on my plate. That way I could control my portions instead of having 3 servings of rice dished out.
Losing the weight again after baby #5 (and leftovers from #4)...
Mini-goal #1: <200 lbs