[QUOTE=TWINCA;5295202]I am a corporate attorney. Long hours, lots of stress, but a thoroughly enjoyable and rewarding career.
That's such a cool job!! Have you found it hard to keep mentally sharp enough for work while on this diet??
I remember last time I did it, about a month into it I had a few days where I felt like my brain would just not work. That was one thing that scared me a bit to start again, which is why I am keeping the 4-2-1 option for days where I really need to be on.. How have things been for you?
Im 39 years old, live in New York City. I am a stem cell specialist for a scientific company, previously worked in a laboratory. I have a boyfriend that I have been with for almost 13 years and an adorable little dog named Stanley!
My Sig other is very supportive and still thinks Im sexy even though I have gone up and done 20-30 pounds several times during our relationship. He is a good influence-he eats super healthy and works out 3-4 days a week and has done so consistently the entire time Ive known him. He was very overweight as a child and overcame it when he was a teen and has maintained for many many years. He has proven to me that consistency is the key, yet I tend to make the same mistakes over and over.
I have had issues with weight my entire life and have always been pretty obsessed over it. I go between being extremely healthy and working out all the time to doing absolutely nothing, laying on the couch, and eating everything I want. Im really sick of the extreme way of being and this is something I want to work on. I need to find a healthy balance!!
I little about me. I am 56 and like TWINCA, I was an attorney but unlike her, I was never happy doing it. So now, I am an Instructional Desginer creating training courses for a telecommunications company. I work from home (like kwalk50) and can't imagine every going back to an office every day! I love the electric desk my husband gave me that allows me to alternate standing and sitting during the day.
We have 7 sons between us (his and hers) Four are mine and 3 are his. They are 19, 21, 23, 24, 25, 27 and 29. Someone always needs something! The youngest 4 (sometimes 5) have one foot on each side of the adulthood line. Amazingly, none of them live with us! They are all on their own or at college. Our lives are never boring. Having an empty nest does make dieting much easier. I wish we'd started this 2 years ago. We are looking forward to our first grandchild coming in early summer. Initially, the thought of having my own grandchildren made me feel old but now, I'm thrilled to enjoy a new little one in the family.
On the dieting front, I am an every day weigh-in person at home. In the interest of full-disclosure, I will often weigh myself multiple days a day. I love to see the numbers change mostly down but occasionally up. The up (after yesterday's birthday dinner) only hardens my resolve. I haven't been on a scale at all in 6 years. I hear its called, living in denial. Now that I am being honest and accountable with my head out of the sand, I feel strong. I won't bore you all with my numbers everyday because I know a lot of you go for once a week and I understand that as well. I'll keep it to once a week I promise.
Im 39 years old, live in New York City. I am a stem cell specialist for a scientific company, previously worked in a laboratory. I have a boyfriend that I have been with for almost 13 years and an adorable little dog named Stanley!
My Sig other is very supportive and still thinks Im sexy even though I have gone up and done 20-30 pounds several times during our relationship. He is a good influence-he eats super healthy and works out 3-4 days a week and has done so consistently the entire time Ive known him. He was very overweight as a child and overcame it when he was a teen and has maintained for many many years. He has proven to me that consistency is the key, yet I tend to make the same mistakes over and over.
I have had issues with weight my entire life and have always been pretty obsessed over it. I go between being extremely healthy and working out all the time to doing absolutely nothing, laying on the couch, and eating everything I want. Im really sick of the extreme way of being and this is something I want to work on. I need to find a healthy balance!!
Yumyumgirl,
Awesome boyfriend and role model. Its much easier to be a healthy eater when the person you love already does it! I know you can find your balance. I find I have to force myself not to go to extremes when I diet because I want things to happen RIGHT NOW! I tend to do that with exercise too. I am working on just staying with the walking I was already doing before starting this diet. I haven't changed anything and don't plan to at least for a few weeks.
First of all, thank you to Karen and Laura and Carmen for the compliments on my pic. I wish I could say that was a Medifast Shake I was drinking, but alas a giant frozen margarita! My former modus operandi- the bigger the better! This pic was taken about two years ago post "some diet" and pre 45 pound weight gain and thus Medifast this final go round!!.
SheilaE ~ What a coincidence you and your husband share 7 sons! What a wonderful life story. And congratulations on the grandchild who is on his/her way in the Spring!
I became a grandmom the first time at age 46. I felt old before he was born, but the minute I laid eyes on him, I felt blessed that I was healthy enough to enjoy his infancy and toddler-hood and beyond! He is 19 now, in college and I am so happy I am still able to be there for him! Now for the grandgirls, ages 14 and 3, I am well on my way to being the best physically and mentally for the rest of my life so that I can still share in theirs! And so are you!
I can only handle once a week weigh ins myself, so your ability to accept fluctuations is amazing and mind boggling to me. I get too frustrated and depressed to see that number go up for no valid reason.
And two bites of garlic bread, no wine and no dessert at your son's birthday dinner deserves accolades as well! You and your husband are in it to win it!!!
Thank you for sharing a glimpse into your world!
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"I was tempted to check my weight, knowing full well that there is the immediate 'lifestyle change' drop. It was almost 3 lbs." Laura
Congratulations on the 3 pounds!
I like your term : 'lifestyle change' drop! No matter, 3 pounds is 3 pounds and that loss just makes you want to stay on program and not falter!
I am glad you feel confident now that you have the condiment and Lean and Green guidelines!
Karen ~ I thank you for sharing your life journey. Being an oncology nurse I am sure elicited a great deal empathy for your patients. You care and it comes through it all your posts. I am sure you experienced anxiety for those patients and their families during such difficult diagnoses.
I am glad you have a position now that allows you to work from home and also be there for your husband and sons. Perhaps also a step back from the rigorous nature of patient care provides you with introspection that you might not have been able to process while "in the thick of things."
I am sure it was perfect timing that you returned to Medifast during this time. (And, of course, as you stated copious water consumption lends itself to being nearer to the bathroom and of course, time to go!"
BTW, isn't it ironic that some of us have only sons?
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Carmen ~ Living in New York City sounds so exciting! I am sorry you are feeling a bit unwell...but this shall pass. And at least you've got the holiday to ease yourself into this new lifestyle. As we have all said, it is rough in the beginning, but so much better in the days and weeks to come.
With the responsibilities of your occupation, it does sound prudent to do the 4-2 and 1 Medifast plan.
Like you, I formerly approached any diet/ exercise program as all or nothing. I think Medifast has upped its game in their presentation of a sustainable transition and maintenance plan.
So take each day, hour, minute and moment as it comes...using all the techniques we have found to be useful and others we have not...to achieve your goal. Share with us what works for you.
I have found The Beck Diet Solution on this forum to be extremely helpful as a cognitive therapy approach. Check it out.
Your significant other sounds like a very caring partner. I love that he supports you. Doing this program is stringent in some ways, so any/all acceptance of what you are doing makes the plan that much easier!
Tell us what kind of dog Stanley is and how he got his name!
I've been reading through this long thread and loving every minute of it! Thanks to everyone who has contributed! You guys are really reminding me how great this program is.
I've just begun my second round of Medifast. I used medifast a few years back and lost ~65 pounds (from 259 to 195) in a little less than 4 months. I've had many a health crisis both my own and my husband's to deal with since then and I find myself back up to 258. I'm determined to get the weight off again and follow through with proper transition and maintenance. I'd been considering gastric bypass but my Dr and I agreed that it would be too drastic for me since I've been sucessful in losing large amounts of weight in the past.
So today is Medifast Day 2 for me and I'm feeling pretty good. I'm modifying the 5&1 plan a little by adding with extra fats because I lost a lot of hair my first time around (I think the fact that I'm a vegetarian contributed to the hair loss). Right now I'm using the traditional medifast foods but I have an OptaVia starter kit on the way and I'm really excited about it!
A little about myself:
I'm 32 and I'm a Research Scientist (I do pre-clinical work for new Oncology treatments) it's rewarding and of course totally stressful! I've been married for a few years but my husband and I have been together for about 10. We have no children in part because my husband's health problems are genetic. We do have 4 cats and 2 dogs that really keep us on our toes though!
I'm looking forward to perusing this thread and the rest of this site often!
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A big YAY to Laura and Meg for gutting it out in days 2 and 3. Day 2 was definitely the toughest for me. I was head achy and a little light-headed. I drink some plain chicken broth and that really helped. Good luck today. and Meg, I agree, this thread has already been a huge help for me too! I'm sure your job, your husband and those fur babies do keep you on your toes! A little toe walkin' helps to burn those calories.
I've been reading through this long thread and loving every minute of it! Thanks to everyone who has contributed! You guys are really reminding me how great this program is.
I've just begun my second round of Medifast. I used medifast a few years back and lost ~65 pounds (from 259 to 195) in a little less than 4 months. I've had many a health crisis both my own and my husband's to deal with since then and I find myself back up to 258. I'm determined to get the weight off again and follow through with proper transition and maintenance. I'd been considering gastric bypass but my Dr and I agreed that it would be too drastic for me since I've been sucessful in losing large amounts of weight in the past.
So today is Medifast Day 2 for me and I'm feeling pretty good. I'm modifying the 5&1 plan a little by adding with extra fats because I lost a lot of hair my first time around (I think the fact that I'm a vegetarian contributed to the hair loss). Right now I'm using the traditional medifast foods but I have an OptaVia starter kit on the way and I'm really excited about it!
A little about myself:
I'm 32 and I'm a Research Scientist (I do pre-clinical work for new Oncology treatments) it's rewarding and of course totally stressful! I've been married for a few years but my husband and I have been together for about 10. We have no children in part because my husband's health problems are genetic. We do have 4 cats and 2 dogs that really keep us on our toes though!
I'm looking forward to perusing this thread and the rest of this site often!
Welcome Meg! And congrats to starting back on Medifast! I am on day 5, and it really hasn't been so bad. I timed it so I would mostly be at home these first 5 days though, we will see how it goes when Im back at work tomorrow! This thread has really been helpful in terms of getting some support and inspiration!
As far as your hair loss goes- can you tell me a bit more about that? How long were you on the program and how much had you lost when it started? Ive heard that this can happen on Medifast due to the extreme fast weight loss and/or too much soy in the food. I must admit that it really scares me, which is why I am really paying attention to things this time around.
I dropped weight like crazy last time, but didn't feel so well after a few weeks into it, my brain literally would not work!! Because of this I am doing the 4and 2 and 1 plan on work days to increase the calories. I am also limiting the soy containing products to one per day. I think now after reading your post I will also add in a flax oil supplement. I know this will slow my rate of weight loss, but I am fine with that in the interest of health.
Best wishes to you on your journey! Looking forward to hearing how it goes.
On day 3. My digestive system is reacting to the inulin in some of the products. Last time I felt this way was when I was eating a lot of Fiber One bars. I figure I'll just get used to it. It's not debilitating, just annoying.
Checked my weight again and I'm down a total of 6 pounds. I know that will level out soon enough, but it is cool to have that positive reinforcement.
Yesterday I did have a bit of a headache but that was the only 'stumble' for my day two. Today, I'm taking it easy. I cooked up 5 servings of turkey taco meat to freeze and this afternoon will be grilling some chicken. All in all, I'm quite pleased with the program.
Wow! Many posts since last time I checked, and welcome to all the new folks! I think it is a bit surprising that many of us work(ed) in the scientific/medical field! I am a corporate attorney, but my clients are exclusively biotech/pharma companies.
In any event, I'm still completely down with the cold/flu thing. I did, however, do a weigh in this morning so I could get back on "even" timing:
Medifast Center weigh-in: 246
11/30/2016 - Medifast Day 1: 244
12/03/2016 - Medifast Day 4: 237
12/11/2016 - Medifast Day 12: 233
12/20/2016 - Medifast Day 21 (Week 3): 230
12/27/2016 - Medifast Day 28 (Week 4): 228
12/31/2016 - Medifast Day 32 (Week 4.5): 226
01/03/2017 - Medifast Day 35 (Week 5): 224
01/14/2017 - Medifast Day 46 (Week 6.5): 222
01/16/2017 - Medifast Day 48 (Week 7): 220
Yes, that is correct! I just officially lost 26 lbs. in 7 weeks on MF!
Just thought I would check-in to provide some motivation of all the new folks still in week 1. I swear, time flies!!!!!
TWINCA! Your success has underscored my confidence in this program!!
