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Old 06-18-2012, 06:45 PM   #16  
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This made me think of something I'd heard...people bleaching their booty hole...anyone have any info? I'm just weird and nosy.
wow thats the 1st i have heard of that as well!

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Old 06-18-2012, 07:21 PM   #17  
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wow thats the 1st i have heard of that as well!

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It was news to me too. Not something I'll google though- the last time I googled something like that, the first thing I got was pictures! No thanks! ;-)
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Old 06-18-2012, 07:49 PM   #18  
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Well, I'd chalk up your boyfriend's preferences to possibly bad grooming experiences because honestly if you keep it well trimmed/short, it should not be a problem. I second whoever mentioned being concerned about your boyfriend wanting you to be bare down there but of course that's just our opinions, not fact.

I still get bumps and stuff no matter what (leave on conditioner, loofah with exfoliation, baby oil, you name it) SO I just use a trimmer/clipper for grooming and a razor the bikini area. As for the butt area, I use the same said trimmer too because I fear shaving it will make the hair grow back more coarse/thicker or something.
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Old 06-18-2012, 08:01 PM   #19  
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All this talk reminds me I need to do some cleaning up, but you ladies have provided some great tips!
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Old 06-18-2012, 10:18 PM   #20  
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I haven't read all the posts... because I'm a little disturbed.

Not by the hair removal, but by the unfairness of your boyfriend.

Perhaps this comes from abusive past relationships on my part... but a guy DOES not get to dictate what I do to my body. Also... all men I've been with do not wax theirs, *** hair and all. So why should I?

Reasons why I shouldn't:
1) According to my gyno, it IS NOT healthy to remove hair down there. We grow it for a reason. Shaving irritates the skin, waxing causes all sorts of infections and the creams can not only irritate us, but can also cause infections. It's just not healthy. If someone cares for me, and I tell him it's not healthy... then he should back off.
2) It's expensive. Most women wear make up, do our hair, put on the pretty little outfits and shave the legs, arm pits and trim the area. Now we have to wax the area as well? That's pricey for a guy that probably has 3-4 pairs of jeans and biggest expense for personal look is cologne (YES I know not ALL men are like that). But... is he footing the bill?
3) All the men I know don't wax... and I do ... a lot of things that certainly involve getting their hair in my mouth.. and you know what... I don't notice it.

I just feel like this is a control thing, I also know I'm biased because of past issues. My current boyfriend suggested he liked it shaved, but never made it mandatory and never had a problem working around it. He even said shaved didn't change what he was doing... the area he spends attention on isn't riddled with hair. Just uses one hand to spread it, and walla! Can have all sorts of fun.

HOWEVER

If you are intent on shaving and removing hair I do know an insane amount of tricks as the first BF dictated a lot about me and shaving was a must for him.

1) Waxing: Personally... I HATE waxing and refuse to do it. It's painfull, it's expensive, and you have to let the hairs grow back a bit to do it again. Avoid
2) Creams: Say it with me "NO!"
3) Shaving, now we're talking!
-Start with a nice trim. For the outer area and the thigh area (As well as my bum) I personally like to use a mans razor. They are designed for sensitive skin, close shaves, and for odd angles. I use their clippers to be more specific (usually the ones made for facial hair "design" and precision. That just leaves the one little area directly around the outside.
I then soak everything in HOT water, get a NEW razor with anti bumb shaving cream and carefully shave. (I use to throw a mirror on the bath tub floor to see it). SHAVE THE OPPOSITE WAY THE HAIR GROWS... trust me.
Once out, I would use cool water on the entire area and ice cubes with a splash of lemon on the outside thigh (Where the leg attaches). No lemon near the actual openings... and only a SPLASH! Wait a few days and repeat.

That's the only thing that worked for me... it was a pain... and if the raiser was too old... well... irritation. If I didn't use the right cream... irritation... etc.

All in all... not worth it. Honestly.

A good guy will understand you're not required to shave down there. And he doesn't have to do anything to you, he's not comfortable with, just like you don't have to do anything for him that you're not comfortable with. However, every douche I date, wants to dictate this... the few decent guys don't demand anything in exchange for sexual pleasure. The current boyfriend even told me that the hair has no effect when he does do certain things... and personally, his hair doesn't effect anything I do to him. (Except the occasional pull one out of my mouth thing... but considering other bits that go in there.... I'd say a stray pubic is the least gross thing going in my mouth).
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Old 06-18-2012, 10:25 PM   #21  
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Uh.. wait a second - He won't do stuff because you have a sexually mature body? I have to be honest and say that I find that creepy. Does he get rid of all of his hair?

I "tidy" up my lady parts, keep the hair short but if anyone asked me to remove all of the air I'd send them on their way.

When I was younger I used to use cream to remove all of the hair until I realised that I was literally removing all of my body hair and it made me feel like a little girl. Which is why I find it creepy that they would request it.

Social conditioning yadda yadda yadda

Anyway, that's my rant over

Just do what you feel comfortable with and don't feel pressured by a guy if you're not comfortable.
I know this is a personal opinion... but I 100% agree.

I just think a guy can ask... but he can't tell you. It's like you asking to try a position or bondage, but it shouldn't be a "I wont' have sex with you unless you let me tie you up" sort of deal.

If he's not comfortable doing things with you, then ok, don't do them. YOu shouldn't have to make the accomadation for him.


Also yes... some women bleach their bum holes. It's a porn thing.
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Old 06-18-2012, 10:33 PM   #22  
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I don't know; it really doesn't bother me that much. And I really don't think he'd FORCE me to shave if I didn't really want to, but I mean I do things that involve my mouth, too, and if I'm expecting him to stay a certain way, I believe he has every right to expect me to do the same thing. It's not like he won't have sex with me at all; he just won't do THAT. People have their preferences, and if he were going to do things specifically for me, I don't see why I shouldn't do them for him. It's tit for tat.
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Old 06-18-2012, 10:44 PM   #23  
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I don't know; it really doesn't bother me that much. And I really don't think he'd FORCE me to shave if I didn't really want to, but I mean I do things that involve my mouth, too, and if I'm expecting him to stay a certain way, I believe he has every right to expect me to do the same thing. It's not like he won't have sex with me at all; he just won't do THAT. People have their preferences, and if he were going to do things specifically for me, I don't see why I shouldn't do them for him. It's tit for tat.
I'm sorry, the topic really hits a soft spot, and like I said, it's just a personal oomph from a biased stand point.

Which is why I gave you tips. The guys that demanded (and it was a demand) that I shave would also NOT do any hair removal of their own. I think it's awesome if your guy does for you.

I also think it's how comfortable you are. If you're completely fine and it's no pressure, then I say go for it! There is a lot of good advice and it's truly experimental as not every gal is the same in skin conditions, hair, and such. Some girls can use throw away razors in a hury and never have a problem (such as my cousin...) others ALWAYS have some irritation and itching.

I didn't mean it to come out as strong as it did. I just know every guy that did that to me "Shave or else you don't get any pleasure from me" was a HORRID relationship. They were all selfish in bed, one would just roll over and tell me he was horny... on top. I once mentioned I wasn't in the mood nor was I wet (hint hint...) and his answer was he didn't want blue balls because they hurt OH SO BAD and to get the lube. Which became our foreplay... He rolled over, I got the lube.

This guy was my problem and manipulated me in many ways, I know this now but at the time he was my first and only guy to look twice at me and I hate to admit I totally fell into the "high school girl" outlook and did so much for him. He wasn't the only "real gem" that I dated either.

Just EVERY guy that has told me this, Shave or else you don't get anything from me... has just been god awefull. I know not all men are that way, and I don't know how he asked, how he suggested it, or any of the details. So if you're completely comfortable, then awesome.

If he ever asks for anal though... say no. Not only is it uncomfortable and painful, but it can cause... gross things... to happen. Which after about 10 minutes of "please stop" and crying on my part... was some how my fault that he got you know what on him... GROSS and NOT ok. Also the wake up call needed to tell douche boy friend one to finally take a hike.
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Old 06-18-2012, 11:24 PM   #24  
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All this is actually mind blowing to me. I'm a very "au natural" kind of gal and so is my husband.... I just wonder what's wrong with us people if we don't like us as we come? I mean, we were MEANT to have hair there!
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My guy likes the look of hair there but much prefers it gone if uh, he ventures down there. it's not about how it looks or anything; it seriously irritates his nose! that could be why her BF wants it gone and it's perfectly understandable IMO if he's got a really sensitive nose, LOL.

I recently started using those Venus razors with the moisture bars on them. Ive used Venus for years, but not the one with the bars. Ever since I started using those I haven't nicked myself once (getting cut down there is nooooo fun) and I don't even need shavin cream or soap. just wet the bar and go. no irritation after! Love it. I have been shavin there for years though as well that could have something to do with it.
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I've tried it all - Brazilians, waxing, creams, shaving with all different razors and what works for me is the system on beavershaver dot com. No, I don't work for them! You can probably get the products cheaper on Amazon. What you need to do is use the Cleancut body trimmer first to cut the hair really short, then follow it with the Cleancut (Seiko) shaver. If you keep it up you will only need to use the Cleancut but it only works on hair that is already short. It will be as smooth as a brazilian and I can't see how you would nick or cut yourself with either of these tools. Back when I ordered it they only had the Cleancut and not the Stellar so I'm not sure what the difference is. You could even just use the trimmer by itself and get a close shave. No bumps, no itching for me. The only issue is that to keep it baby smooth I have to use the Cleancut daily. I'm too lazy for that so I use the trimmer about twice a week and the Cleancut when I know it's going to be date-night!lol!

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This made me think of something I'd heard...people bleaching their booty hole...anyone have any info? I'm just weird and nosy.
Isn't this just for adult actresses who have their holes on display for $$$? Hahaha.

mimsyborogrooves, maybe this is a generational thing, but most woman-loving dudes and chicks I know strongly prefer a thoroughly weeded field. Four words: hair in your teeth!

Also congrats on a BOYFRIEND, last I heard you were just dating!
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mimsyborogrooves, maybe this is a generational thing, but most woman-loving dudes and chicks I know strongly prefer a thoroughly weeded field. Four words: hair in your teeth!

Also congrats on a BOYFRIEND, last I heard you were just dating!
Yes, yes, the fella in my last thread about my dating life is now my boyfriend and he is an absolute DOLL. I'm really quite happy to shave for him, lmao.
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Old 06-20-2012, 03:58 AM   #29  
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All this talk reminds me I need to do some cleaning up, but you ladies have provided some great tips!
Haha. Same here!
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Old 06-20-2012, 06:05 AM   #30  
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mimsyborogrooves, maybe this is a generational thing, but most woman-loving dudes and chicks I know strongly prefer a thoroughly weeded field. Four words: hair in your teeth!
I don't know. I'm 47 and have always done a lot of weeding in this area. I figure it's like shaving your legs and pits. Yeah, we have that hair for a reason but for our livestyles today, it's probably unnecessary. It's also so much cleaner and hygenic to get rid of it.
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