I love the Ipex and Body at Victoria's secret but those are my OLD favorite bra. My current favorite is Vanity Fair Beautiful benefits full figure bra. I'm a 38DD and my girls have never been so supported (and uplifted) in my life and its PRETTY! (lace on sides in middle, smooth cup and lil rhinestones in the middle too). My girls actually ache after I take it off.
I agree that a fitting may be your best bet at finding a great bra you may be a size smaller or cup size bigger than you think!