Lynda, how odd! My mom was just talking to me about this last night!
She was telling me that when she lost weight, everyone around her tried to sabotage her weight loss by telling her that she had lost too much, that she was anorexic, why couldn't she eat like a regular person, etc.
That is so sad!
I think your loss is amazing, and that you know best what is feeling right with your body. How you look has little to do with it, and unless they are a good friend, they don't know what is going on with you other than how you appear. What really matters is what is going on inside you. How do you feel? Are you feeling healthy? Are you eating clean? Are you happy and satisfied with yourself? I think, with the great accomplishment you have made, you have earned the right to feel good.
I wish I had great advice for you on how to shut those meanies up, but instead, I offer lots of support!
I hope you can find some healthy ways to deal with those bad feelings...maybe one of them will be posting here! Have you found the journals yet? They can be a great way to vent, then see what others have to say about how you feel...if nothing else, you'll know you are not alone!