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Old 01-23-2014, 11:13 AM   #1
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So, long story short, I felt superbly stressed out last night, to the point of panic... I haven't felt that way in a while. And what do you know, I immediately wanted to reach for ice cream. I had food instead, because I was legitimately hungry, but a part of me wanted to reach for the ice cream even after I felt full (noticeably full). It took a friend encouraging me not to and distracting me in order for me not to do it.

Last night, it felt so unlikely that I would stop myself from eating junk food. It was as though something took over inside of me and I didn't seem to be able to concern myself with the consequences of emotional eating. I literally wasn't in a state to do so, even though I normally am.

That was an eye-opener for me. I realized I am going to have to change my life around to manage stress better, I think. I want to continue to lose and then maintain the loss.

I wanted to bring this up because I am very eager for strategies to manage impulses. How do you ladies/guys do it?
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Old 01-23-2014, 11:24 AM   #2
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Because I do give in to impulses (although not so much as prior to weight loss), the most important thing for me is to forgive myself and get back into losing mode. Maintenance for me is "dieting on a short leash." I think I do manage my stress better (exercise being a big tool with that), but I'm never perfect and probably never will be perfect in being able to avoid all stress eating. I've managed to maintain for eight years now so I think I'm doing okay.
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I find that when I am supertempted and feel I will lack self control I drink 1 scoop whey protein powder in water.It is less than 60 calories ,12 gm protein,less than 1 gm carb.I make 1 glass and sip it and find that it quickly satisfies my hunger and cravings.
I think all the amino acids help produce dopamine and serotonin and seem to help suppress hunger and cravings for me.
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And of course always have water nearby and sip on the water when tempted
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So, long story short, I felt superbly stressed out last night, to the point of panic... I haven't felt that way in a while. And what do you know, I immediately wanted to reach for ice cream. I had food instead, because I was legitimately hungry, but a part of me wanted to reach for the ice cream even after I felt full (noticeably full). It took a friend encouraging me not to and distracting me in order for me not to do it.

Last night, it felt so unlikely that I would stop myself from eating junk food. It was as though something took over inside of me and I didn't seem to be able to concern myself with the consequences of emotional eating. I literally wasn't in a state to do so, even though I normally am.

That was an eye-opener for me. I realized I am going to have to change my life around to manage stress better, I think. I want to continue to lose and then maintain the loss.

I wanted to bring this up because I am very eager for strategies to manage impulses. How do you ladies/guys do it?
I've been on maintenance too short a time to post from experience but read a book suggested on 3FC, Brain Over Binge by Kathryn Hansen. She presents a description of how our brain generates the impulses and how to handle them. I've found her method helpful.

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Old 01-25-2014, 10:37 AM   #6
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Thank you for the input so far and for the book recommendation mars735.

I think I have been dieting in the way you've described, Sheila. It's been helpful, but the temptations have also felt so minimal or minimalized, that the other day really felt like it shook me up. Thank goodness for fresh starts. It really is a day by day matter.
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Back in August 2013, I convinced myself to give my plan a shot until October 31, 2013. I told myself then that, when that date came, I would be grateful I had committed myself to losing weight. Sure enough, when October 31, 2013 came, I was deeply grateful and pleased with my progress. It's been 19 months and over 115 lbs lost, and I remain deeply grateful every day. There are no words to explain how worth it the hard work is.
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Became 'overweight' (BMI of 29.7) on July 29, 2014!


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