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Old 05-11-2007, 12:37 PM   #1  
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Hey guys i have a question:
Did you notice that your husband/bf/gf/wife basic loved ones behavior to you change post WL? I'm wondering if my DH finds me less attractive without the weight or maybe the saggy skin is a turnoff. Just curious.
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Old 05-11-2007, 12:45 PM   #2  
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I haven't noticed any negative effects from my DH since I lost weight. He is still very affectionate. Even more so, KWIM. I do have some saggy skin, but He and I both think I look much better now. Not that he ever said I looked bad before, but I know I did. He always tells me how "hot" I am now.

I seriously doubt if your DH finds you less attractive now. It could be stress or something else going on. I'm sure he finds you perfectly lovely.

WTG on the wt. loss. Congratulations.
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Old 05-11-2007, 01:05 PM   #3  
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I'd be surprised if he found you less attractive, but, if you're worried about it, can you talk to him and find out what's going on?
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Old 05-11-2007, 02:07 PM   #4  
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He does say he loves my wobbly bits. But yeah our life has become much more stressful so that could be it. I think I had visions of being irresistable and I forgot Life intervenes!
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