Kelly!
I had to welcome someone who's from Tennesee as my husband's family is from there, they live in the Knoxville Area.
We live in Ohio though. We do go and visit when we can.
I too have a lot to lose and am struggling myself. I am a part of the Jaded Ladies Group, its under Support Groups if your interested, we'd love to have ya!
Anyways. I am sure you will love it here, regardless of what group you go too or don't go too, the ladies are all wonderful here and there is lots of great support!