My name is Terri and i need a buddy .i need alot of encouragement and need someone to talk to .I am a good listener also .im 48 and engaged to be married next october.ive been married 2 xbefore .I was alone for 4 years and met someone that loves me for me as I do him.,but i want and need to lose weight.i did it once before about 4 years ago and then gained it all back.I want to do this for me ,but i do have some issues to overcome and i am the type of person that can not talk to alot of people because of my insecurites.i really need a buddy and would like to be someones buddy also.If anyone is interested let me know ,i love this forum.