Hi again Sarah
Well, what I've been doing so far is first coming to terms with the idea that I'd need to watch my eating and exercise regularly for the rest of my life - I've been overweight since I'm, uhm, 8, and I know that a one-time diet won't cut it if I start eating like before again. I hadn't done this "work" with myself the first time I had lost 15-16 pounds, and I think it's part of why I let myself slip, in a "the weight will never come back" attitude. Yeah, right, genius *lol*
For the rest: I've been cutting processed foods from my eating, and favorizing low-GI foods (the method I follow is close to Sugar Busters, but I'm yet to read the SB book, so that I'm sure I'm not saying something wrong here). Basically, I removed McDo food, bagels, fries, chips etc, and learnt to eat more salads and veggies, which I wasn't doing before >.< As for exercising, I try to do that at the gym 4/5 days a week, with cardio and weight-lifting (the rest of the time, I have my dog to walk, so I move a bit every day all the same); I thought at first that it'd be a bother, but in fact I quite like it.
Of course, I admit that at times, I don't feel like exercising or give in to some cravings and such, especially when I'm out (my own house is safe enough, I threw away all junky snacks and kept only fruits)... environments I can't control are still a problem for me. Fortunately things are getting a bit better, my new eating method allows at times for certain type of desserts and now I have the recipes for them, so I know, even if I don't bake said desserts, that I'm not giving them up forever, and it minimizes the frustration. I also keep healthy snacks (apples, a handful of nuts...) with me, so that I don't jump on bad foods if really I'm hungry, or I go do an activity that isn't compatible with eating, to stop being focused on the cravings. Most of the time it works, now I need to make that 100% I guess
I'd say these are the "main thngs" I've done so far, I may have to find other tips and means if I bump into more difficulties later on. But, each thing in its own moment, I guess. Hope this can help as well