Whoa you sound like you have your hands full!
Welcome to 3FC. It is such a great place because there are so many different people following different plans.
I would say that you should research all the plans you are interested in and see what would work for you best. See so far for me, South Beach has worked and I feel good and never starving like on other plans. You don't have to count anything which is great becuase I hate having to count out everything I eat.
Exercise is key as well. I am not one to talk because I am trying to get motivated to move my but as well. There is a wonderful exercise forum here as well.
Welcome Chris, you can do this!