Glad you're back with us.
If you're counting calories, MyFitnessPal (online or mobile app) is a great tool and I hear LoseIt is similar.
I have had success so far with setting rewards for myself that I only get if I consistently log my calories every day. I don't beat myself up over not losing weight, or even for not meeting my calorie goal. I just keep logging, and when I eat too much I find that I notice it more because I'm logging, so I'm not as likely to keep overeating for days in a row.
Not sure if that's helpful for you - but best wishes either way!