Commit to yourself that you WILL make your goal! You WILL. It's not rocket science, but it *is* a good deal of effort over a fairly long period of time. Stick with the site -- come back even on bad days
(that's when we need support the most -- not the easy days when we were perfect, but the tough days when we are covered in powdered sugar eaten straight from the bag [I've done this] and feeling down in the dumps!)
You can do this, we all can!