Welcome to 3FC! =D
First things first. What's your plan like for now? Are you following something specific? Counting calories? Watching carbs? Using a program of some kind?
As long as you find something that are comfortable with, and won't feel deprived on then you can absolutely lose the weight. Healthy choices... one day at a time... one meal at a time... and the weight will eventually come off.
Fruits and vegetables are good for us. It can be hard to get enough in when we don't like them, but there are ways. Smoothies to sneak in veggies. Learn to cook a recipe that hides them. Or discover a new way of preparing them! Roasting or cooking them with a smidge of oil. Mixing them with vegetables you DO enjoy.
The tickers that you see are available to members who've been around for 20 days and have made 20 posts. Use it as a mini-goal. Stick with healthier changes for just 20 days and you'll be rewarded with a signature.
Everyone at 3FC wants to see everyone else succeed. We're all here with health and fitness in mind. It's a goal every single person can accomplish.
Can't wait to see you around the boards!