Hello lovely chicks,
I guess I should start with introducing myself. I'm 5'4 with a small frame 145 pounds and am in the middle of my weight loss goal. My starting weight I lovingly refer to as the 150lbs+ zone. Right now I'm still struggling to loose 15lbs to reach my goal weight of 130lbs.
There isn't a lot of support to go around me right now. The tendency to be overweight is high in my family so when I mention my goals I am not presented with positive support but rather negative feed back.The same goes for my friends.
How I shouldn't need to lose weight, which always turns into how I must:
a) have an eating distorter because I want to cut down portions and eat healthy
b) think that they must be fat
EX. that me wanting to lose weight tells 'them' that they are huge by comparison...so here have some more dessert, candy, giant Starbucks coffee my treat, "eat, eat, eat".
Honestly I don't want to hurt any one and these comments just confuse me so I have stopped mentioning any of my goals, setbacks, successes to my family and friends. I have also stopped seeing any results, and am afraid to slip back.
Hope this was the right place to post this. And am looking forward to any reply's.
-B