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Originally Posted by Meeshellee
I know the one day that I made bad choices it took about 3 days to lose what I had gained (about 3lbs) and start making progress again. Although ketostix showed me being in ketosis the whole time. The things off plan I had that day were cocktail sauce, diet Pepsi, tortilla pinwheels (4), low carb burger (carls jr) with catsup and cheese (had them hold the mayo, but forgot about the catsup). I was surprised how much one day of bad choices set me back, but I did the best I could in the situation I was in.
I'm not sure how the phase 4 cheat day works, but I wonder if since phase 1 is so restricted , if you add a bunch of carbs or fat suddenly (rather than going through the phases) if your body reacts differently. I am by no means an expert in this, but this has just been based on how my body reacts.
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When I was on a ketogenic diet I would also see a 3-5 lb gain after a low-carb fast food or restaurant meal (with or without catsup).
For me, it wasn't the tablespoon or so of catsup I was consuming, it was water retention from the extra sodium, and it almost always took about 3 days to get rid of.
I'm really glad I experimented, because it showed me that I CAN eat out on plan, but I will pay for it with 3-4 days of water gain (so long as I stay on plan or very close to it).
What was hard to change was my irrational reaction to the scale gain. Every dieter's instinct told me to have a binge day and start fresh tomorrow, because I had "blown it."
That's STILL my problem. I do well until I see a gain on the scale. Even when I've been 100% on plan AND know the weight gain is being caused by pms/tom, sodium, exercise, iillness, injury, constipation.... I STILL want to binge in response to the scale.
Weighing weekly instead of daily only made it worse, because the gains still happened and would trigger a week-long binge instead.
Weighing twice a day (or whenever I bloody well felt like it) helped most IF (and it's a BIG if) I celebrated and focused on "not gaining" as much or more so than I ever did on losing.
That way, the very next weigh-in can be a success (even 15 minutes later).
Weighing like that helps nip failures in the bud.
For me, accepting less than 100% has been very difficult, and a work in progress over the last 10 years.
I may not have the words and exact numbers right, but someone in the 100% thread said something to the effect that the 90% thread was ok, but that it needed to be limited to only the one thread because "What's next? An 80% thread? A 50% thread? A 5% thread?"
Personally, I agree that we really only need this one thread, because I see us as the "Never give up and do as much as you can" thread.
Occasionally my best is 100%, more often it's 95%, even more often it's 80% and sometimes it's 10%.
Accepting the middle ground has been extremely hard. When I can't do 100% or when my efforts are 100% but my results have not been, every inner voice tells me to give up (at least for today).
I used to think giving in to those irrational inner voices made me crazy, lazy, or stupid, but then I started thinking about where those inner voices came from and realized that I had not invented them. They had been given and even forced upon me, by my family, friends, teachers, doctors, fellow dieters, the dieting industry, the media, from every corner of our culture.
We're taught that we not only will fail, we are doomed to fail if we can't accomplish and maintain 100%. In many ways, we're taught that anything less than 100%, even 99.99% will doom us to failure. If we succeed at anything less than 100%, it's seen as a fluke, that we've somehow escaped the wrath of the diet gods. We're told (or hear behind our backs) that our imperfection will be our downfall and that only the truly righteous (100%ers and a select few of those trying to be) will enter the kingdom of weight loss Heaven.
I still have a really hard time accepting that my best really is good enough because of the cultural messages that tell me that my best isn't good enough and that really only 100% counts for anything at all. Accepting less is virtually seen as heresy.
I know I've gotten off topic and begun ranting. I tend to get emotionally stirred up easily this time of month (and have the hardest time being anywhere near perfect). It's just so hard to ignore the judgment of others and harder still to ignore the inner voices that echo them.