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Originally Posted by sekc14
Maybe you're nervous about "judgement day" --seeing "the peeps" who are ego centered on looks rather than love, happiness and health. I understand all too well having concerns about judgements from others. Unfortunately, they will judge no matter what you look like, be prepared. Especially if they throw you out of whack by comments about being "too skinny" or any other detrimental comment. I've always been so focused on my body. When I lost 105 lbs., some guy I met asked if I could get a face lift? He said my body was fine but, he had to look at my face each day and it needed work. I bid him adieu but the comment hurt my self esteem for awhile.
I hope you will prepare yourself so that no matter what they say, it doesn't derail you from your weight loss journey. You must tell yourself that their judgements say more about them than they do about you! BTW, the man who made the comment to me had lost a leg in a vehicular accident. Amazing that his own shortcoming -- no pun intended, had not made him more compassionate or understanding. Keep that in mind too. I wish you strength!
Man oh man what I would have said to that man. That was awfull, the expletives would have come forth my mouth with a vengeance. What I don't understand is why people think they have a right to say things like that. I guess we live in America, thanks for that, so they have the right....but still makes them jerks!!