My cousin is getting married at the end of June. I will not be anywhere near the end of phase 1 at the time of the wedding (although I am pretty excited to show off my "new body" to those who haven't seen me in a while by then!) and I really don't want to go off program. I feel badly though having them pay for 2 meals (rehearsal dinner the night before and the actual wedding dinner) when I honestly have no intention of eating them. How do I tactfully and respectfully deal with this?
I was thinking about calling my Uncle and talking to him - but is that rude?
All advice is appreciated. (It's a local wedding - so I don't have to worry about travel)