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Originally Posted by Bretley
I think it's getting much to dramatic in here. The cheating post was made for people to discuss specific cheats, i don't think we need to be pushing everyone to that thread who mentions the word cheat in their post.
If you're someone that is not sympathetic to "cheaters" then just don't respond to the post, easy as that.
It's really not as easy as that. As if it's not already clear, I'm someone who is not sympathetic to
cheating. I don't appreciate being told, even as kindly as you did it, to "shut up and mind your own business." I know you didn't say it like that, and that I'm hyperbolizing. But I have no intention of remaining silent when something should be said.
As I stated earlier, if you want to cheat, go ahead and cheat. Seriously. It's your life. Do what you want. Just don't wander in here and expect the rest of us to throw you a pity party. I don't care if that bothers people and they think I'm an a**. I
am an a**. I'm fine with that. If you don't like that I'm an a**, that's not my problem. My self-worth is not based on what others think of me.
Yep. I'm an a** and I speak my mind. And I'm an a** who won't be cheating this weekend, or next week, or next month. I hope that clears it up.
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Originally Posted by rosemary2612
I had no intention of causing conflict. I needed, for my own recovery and success, to post my opinion and what I was feeling. I was hoping that it would be an inspirational type message and encouragement for anyone that was having difficulties. I know what was in my heart and for those that think they do, I offer my sincerest apologies.
I appreciate your very genuine post, and I accept all of the blame for causing conflict. In fact, that might have even been my intention.
If some of you feel that has been the case, I offer you the following apology:
I'm so sorry you chose to become bothered or upset by what I wrote.
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Originally Posted by Linden
I'm not at all sure how I got caught in the cross fire regarding cheats, but I seem to be there given the PMs I've received. The only thing I can think of is my bumping the cheat thread. Someone, somewhere on here today mentioned the thread and it occurred to me that, with all the new members here recently, that they might not even know it existed. Hence the bump.
It was not meant as an accusation, or a criticism, or anything else, for that matter. Unlike Bretley ("If you're someone that is not sympathetic to "cheaters" then just don't respond to the post, easy as that."), I don't believe in censorship although I respect her right to state her opinion. I think everybody has a right to post something that they have thought about a great deal and feel strongly about. And I've not taken a stand for either side.
Like most people, I'd rather not be attacked for something I haven't done.
I didn't start it, but I did escalate it. Feel free to PM me, instead of Linden, with your concerns, comments and criticisms. You're welcome to attack me on here or in private. Bring it on!
In the meantime, I have to see a guy about an aardvark. Mine expires next Tuesday, and I can't find my lucky bottle cap.