Sounds like our family is similar. My dh is 135 on a heavy day. He dropped to 132 and started freaking out (he is 5'8" btw). But since I cook the meals, the family eats what I do. Lots of chicken, ground turkey, fish, fruits and veggies. They enjoy all the meals, they don't see it as having to eat mom's diet food. DH will add to his if he feels the need. He doesn't ask me to fix him something else, nor do I feel obliged to. As for treats, we don't have them in the form of cake, ice cream, cookies, chips, etc anymore. Now a treat is some fruit, or a small glass of fruit juice, or yogurt, etc.
Mom to 3 great kids! In love with their dad
"The only disability in life is a bad attitude"