Wow, it sounds like most of you have success stories. It NEVER happens for me. I always find the losers. Believe me, I give them a chance but it just never works out. I find myself leaning towards the "large and lovely" chat rooms and web sites because once I tell the person on a regular chat site that I'm big, they want no part of me. How could you not love me? I mean I'm attractive, smart, funny ... I don't need to explain myself. How can some people be so shallow! I guess I'd rather find out that someone didn't like me because I was big online rather than in person.
I've pretty much stopped looking. It's all about ME now. I like it.