Ok, I keep looking up kcals to see what in the heck it is. I keep seeing the term, but...
According to what I found, the k means 1000, and I KNOW she can't be eating 10,000 CALORIES a day.
I also don't think she could hold her head up if she was just eating 100 calories a day. So maybe you can explain this in general calorie terms?
Anyway, my dad is the same way. I've tried to interest him in upper body exercise and handweights...even leg lifts from a chair aren't going to hurt his legs any. If he just eats healthy meals, he can lose though...but the three cookies he had yesterday ain't a gonna do it. And that's often his deal. He says
he's eating healthy, has all the outward signs...but when you're not looking....
Could she be doing the same? Sabotaging her own weight loss?
What about meds? Is she on any? Some meds can cause weight gain no matter what you do. They had to change one of my daughter's meds because she kept gaining weight once they put her on it. They took her off that one and she lost a bit. You could research the web on any of the meds she's on and find out whether one might be the culprit