3 Fat Chicks on a Diet Weight Loss Community  

Go Back   3 Fat Chicks on a Diet Weight Loss Community > Support Forum > General chatter

General chatter Because life isn't just about dieting. Play games, jokes, or share what's new in your life!

Am I wrong.....

Closed Thread
 
Thread Tools
Old 01-07-2006, 06:25 PM   #1
ugggg.....
 
Join Date: Dec 2005
Posts: 2,965

Default Am I wrong.....

I got conned into helping with a kids group at church--kind of like scouts. The meeting was to start around 1:30 and end around 4 or 4:30, so I left around 1 and DH had just laid down to take a nap--hasn't been feeling well. I got to church and none of the three kids in my class were there. My son lives less than 10 minutes from the church so I stopped by his apartment. We ended up watching a movie together and then I was home before 4 to make me & hubby something to eat. When I got home, hubby asked how it went since he knows I really don't want to do it but got the "nobody else will do it for these kids" so I am. I told him that the class was cancelled so I stopped by son's. He started yelling about how rude I am for not calling- I did not call because as I said he was laying down for a nap when I left and if I called while he was sleeping I would have been yelled at for that. He said that I should have just come home instead of going to son's. He also said if I made anything to eat he wouldn't eat it and is being what I think is very irrational....
Am I wrong to be mad at this point?
jules1216 is offline  
Old 01-07-2006, 07:30 PM   #2
PrestonsMama
 
PrestonsMama's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: Pittsburgh, PA
Posts: 53

S/C/G: 253/180/150

Height: 5'6"

Default

No, you aren't wrong. You were just trying to be polite to not wake him. I can't see why it would be a big deal to visit with your son either. Your Dh is the one who is wrong. He needs to be more supportive of your relationship w/your son and that you are able to make your own choices without having to worry about whether it will upset him or not. ((HUGS))
__________________
------------------------------------------------
Ultimate Goal


------------------------------------------------
PrestonsMama is offline  
Old 01-07-2006, 08:14 PM   #3
Getting back on track
 
icmethinner's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2005
Location: Raleigh, NC
Posts: 500

Height: 5' 9"

Default

Maybe he's grouchy because he doesn't feel well and maybe he's jealous that you spent time with your son and he didn't? I'm sure he'll get over it soon - try to take it with a grain of salt and heck - if he's not gonna eat it - don't cook him anything!
__________________

"The tragedy in life doesn't lie in not reaching your goal. The tragedy lies in having no goal to reach."
Benjamin Mays
icmethinner is offline  
Old 01-07-2006, 08:43 PM   #4
Junior Member
 
Tynerra's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: Tennessee
Posts: 15

Default

Tell him I said "Wah" looks like you don't have to cook tonight! <<hugs>> Men can be such babies!
__________________
Tynerra is offline  
Old 01-08-2006, 05:22 PM   #5
ugggg.....
 
Join Date: Dec 2005
Posts: 2,965

Default

I didn't cook the supper I had planned. I made myself a big salad and left him to fend for himself. He finally apologized for the way he acted. I lost 5 lbs last Tuesday when I weighed and I think I have lost more this week. Pants I just bought that were a little tight are now a little loose--not falling off loose but I can see a difference. He tends to get insecure and I think that's what I am dealing with. This time I am not going to let his insecurities make me lose my motivation. I will continue to go to the gym at least 3 times a week and continue changing my eating habits. Things are better today--I guess I just needed to vent because he makes me so mad sometimes especially when it is irrational and I didn't do anything wrong.
jules1216 is offline  
Old 01-08-2006, 06:13 PM   #6
Moderator
 
Marti's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2003
Location: Oregon
Posts: 4,050

Height: 5'1"

Default

Oh Jules....Of coarse you weren't wrong to be mad. He had no right to be so upset. You were the one being the conciderate one to let him sleep while he wasn't feeling well!!

Glad he apologized.

You were in the right. And you can ALWAYS vent. That's what we're all here for!
__________________
Marti

"Nobody ever drowned in sweat"
-Steve Prefontaine

"You must begin to think of yourself as becoming the person you want to be."
-David Viscott
Marti is offline  
Closed Thread
Posts by members, moderators and admins are not considered medical advice
and no guarantee is made against accuracy.


Thread Tools

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

vB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off

Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
VERY O/T - Am I wrong?? xGurlyGrlx 100 lb. Club 17 03-30-2008 03:08 PM
Am I being sensitive? Amberelise General chatter 12 10-04-2007 09:56 PM
So what am I doing wrong? Take a peek please ~lookin for lean~ Weight Loss Support 49 09-04-2005 09:28 AM


All times are GMT -4. The time now is 07:40 PM.






Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.6.7
Copyright ©2000 - 2015, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Search Engine Optimization by vBSEO 3.3.2