Maybe I am over reacting so maybe you guys can let me know if that is the case. My boyfriend of 3 years is off on a business trip for the week and his boss and the main corporate boss from Chicago came into the restaurant I work at for a little business meeting last night.
let me give you some background on his boss first... My boyfriend has known him for most of his life as he was in a band with his older brother. I know his boss socially from him taking us out for christmas every year to nice restaurants and for my boyfriends birthdays thru the years. now he has been sober for the past year because him and his wife have been having troubles due to his consumption. He would stay out all night drink in his office alone leaving his wife and two small kids home alone, lose his work laptop with important information on it, stay at my bfs brothers apt trash his place and leave very unapologetically. so he quit for almost a year but it seems that he has recently fallen off the wagon...
So anyways I didn't notice he was at a table since I was working primarily in another part of the restaurant until another waitress said a man on table 27 wanted to see me. So I walked over to the Table and he told me that I must have been ignoring him (jokingly). He introduced me to the main corporate boss, they made tacky jokes at my boyfriends expense and that was that. He had 1 vodka and two pints and stayed for 4 hours discussing business. They were the last table to leave, he came up to me as I was behind the bar spoke to me about something trivial for a couple minutes then said bye, he didn't even seem drunk. so it took us no more than 30 minutes to clean up and I was on the road when I got a text from him. (he has my number because we wanted the keys to our apt to drop off a surprise gift for my b/fs b day back in May) saying "hi it's me " "can you drive me home from the bar". Now I'm just 3 minutes down the road and so is the bar. How did he get so drunk in less than a half hour that it took for us to clean up and check out? Doesn't he have someone else to call? I am a 26
Year old woman he is my boyfriend 40 year old boss. The whole thing felt so weird I don't feel comfortable driving him home drunk at 11pm at night, I don't feel like we are on that level. So I lied and told him that I was having a glass of wine myself after work and I don't drink and drive myself. He never responded. Not even an apology the next morning. a part of me feels really guilty not driving him since he has been very generous to my boyfriend and I. He is always very complementary towards me and even told me he wanted to Taylor THEIR company christmas party around my schedule so I can go. I of course told him he didn't have to do that. so I am torn on whether I did the right thing I not. something about it felt creepy but he has always been a nice guy. Sorry if this is long winded I just have a weird taste in my mouth about the whole thing.