I've tried both eHarmony (like a free trial version) and Match, and had much better luck with Match. It's my area though. All my matches on eHarmony were 150+ miles away! If you live in a big city you will have better luck I'm sure. I think the type of men I prefer would tend to be on eHarmony but Match it is when you live in the boondocks LOL.
I always jokingly call Match.com the "Man Menu" when I retell our 'falling in love' story. I ordered up what I wanted right from the Man Menu! I asked out a great guy I found on Match.com and we married a year after our first date. Just had our 11th anniversary.
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