I'm not sure if I am posting this in the right place! But I just wanted to get some advice/tips on how you all deal with self image and dating. I am currently a size 14 down from size 22. My biggest woe currently is my stomach. It makes me super self conscious and even though I am starting to feel more confident the more I lose, I am still so afraid of men judging my stomach and thinking I'm too fat to date. :/
I have a date tomorrow... and I know eventually I might be at the point where I want to be intimate with him. I feel like it hides well in clothing... but then if I'm not wearing much clothing in my mind I feel like he is going to immediately be repulsed and hate my body
help! do any of you ever deal with this? How do you start to feel more confident when your body isn't where you want it to be yet? I don't want to pause my life until I lose all the weight... I feel like I've held back enough. And I know people always say the right guy wont care... but how do you know that going into a new situation? I almost want to ask upfront if he cares that I have a fat stomach lol... O.O