The 36 y.o. guy is not your boyfriend. I dunno what word to use, maybe he's your user, but that is not a boyfriend. I'm sure you're a great girl and everything but think about why he is with someone as young as you. You are young and inexperienced and susceptible to be easier controlled than someone more appropriate to his age. Now, that's not saying that he's more mature than you. He clearly is not.
Just see what happens with your friend. I wouldn't jump into anything. You need to stop going back to this 36 y.o. and process this for what it is, a valuable life experience to never waste your time on someone like that.
Under no circumstances should you resume a "relationship" with the 36 y.o.
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