I hear you, on the whole commercial junk.
How about, simple supper, get the babes to bed, keep it simple!
Foot rub! Ya can't go wrong there.
Quite frankly, it does not have to be about, flowers, or chocolate, or any of the traditional stuff.
Finding those few quiet moments, to share, means a lot more.
3+ year maintainer.
The human body is capable of amazing things! But without the mind, it is nothing. Get your mind in gear and the body will follow!
Be selfish about caring for yourself, you deserve it!