I recently met up with one of my best friends. well, she used to be anyway.
Through the day, she commented on my weight in different way and made me feel awful about myself.
Like, I was wondering what to wear for a night out. She said "Yeah, it's not like you can borrow anything from me, because, you know" And then she gave me the up and down look.
We were talking about old times, and she said "you've gained a bit of weight since then" (it was somewhat relevant) to which I replied that it was more, but I lost some. Her reaction: "OMG, seriously? Like, how much did you weigh then? Must've been A LOT!" yeah, like I'd give her the number after this.
She asked if I was hungry. I wasn't so I said no. She is then confused. "Seems like I eat more than you. How come I'm so thin and you are so...well, you know?"
We went looking for some clothes for me, I looked at the plus sizes and she just had to comment that the ones I found were 8 sizes bigger than her size.
I know I'm huge, there is no need to rub it in like that.
Also, she made assumptions about my food habits that she has no idea about, and wouldn't even listen when I told her she was wrong. She has no idea about what it really takes to lose weight, she is naturally close to underweight, and her advice for me to drop the weight (not that I asked) was "just go jogging..." I had to explain to her that diet is the most important thing, and it kinda seemed like she wouldn't even consider that I could be right about it - After all, she is the thin one of us.
Just had to get this out. It ruined what could've been a great weekend for me...