I love to take my dogs for walks. There is a park right across the street, and I usually walk them around that at least once before walking into the neighborhoods that surround it (I like to make sure I pick up after them, and the park has garbage cans. Usually they'll do their business early on, which I like so I'm not carrying it around the rest of my walk).
The park is kind of the gathering place for a lot of people...there's a pool, basketball courts, children's play area with jungle gym and slides, baseball diamonds, practice fields, and tennis courts. Aside from the occasional hello to passing people, I'm okay ignoring everyone else, putting my headphones in and enjoying my walk.
Lately there have been a few groups of young adults/teenagers who are being more vocal than I am comfortable with. I don't care about whatever they say about me, I'm not there to impress them. But they are trying to antagonize my dogs, and THAT is unacceptable.
My Sheltie already has a fight/flight instinct when cars go driving by, and some of them purposely drive by a lot faster than they should (speed limit is 15, they gun their engines and slam on their brakes, I'd imagine they aren't going more than 35, but in the space of a city block, that's pretty fast)...whether it's to purposely set my dog off, or it's to impress the itty bitty bikini squad at the pool, I don't care. My dog spins and barks and gets aggressive. My biggest worry is that she will slip her leash and go running into the street.
The other concern about that is that when I'm walking both my Sheltie and my chihuahua together, when my sheltie gets that fight/flight reaction, she turns that aggression towards my chihuahua and they squabble for a couple minutes before cooling down. It sounds and looks worse than it is...it looks like they are legitimately fighting, even though they don't actually bite or scratch each other. I've started walking my dogs separately so that I can keep control.
I don't really have anywhere else I can take them for a walk safely that is close by, and I'm hoping that as summer comes to an end these kids go back to school. I've tried taking walks at different times of the day, and it never really seems to matter, there's usually a group hanging around the basketball courts at some point, even in the early AM.
I can't really talk to my fiance about this because he is the type of person to be confrontational, and we live in an area where that type of attitude can get you hurt. Aside from finding a new place to walk my dogs, I know I really don't have another option. The dogs need to be walked (that's more of a sanity thing than an exercise thing...my sheltie will bark and EVERYTHING when she doesn't get regular exercise), and I like to get in that walk every day so that I stay active.
Thanks for listening!! Just needed to get that out there, feels better to not have it weighing on my chest!