You know that boy (My guy friend) I went to see the Great Gatsby with? Well I thought I was gay/lesbian until then. He just so... what I've been looking for. Anyways he said he wished he could find a girl as fun as me that was straight. That made me think "Does he like me?" And my mom has been saying "You know I think he has a little bit of a crush on you." So I used that as excuse to say "My mom says you like me. Be 100 percent honest with me. Is it true?" And he being the smart guy he is (Which I like about him) made it sound complicated and I couldn't tell if it was yes or no. So I asked "What does that mean lol" and he said "I mean if you wanted to date me I'd say yes." and then we talk in a "what if" way until i said "I want to date you." and well now we're dating!!! MY FIRST REAL RELATIONSHIP!!! My last "relationship" I was 13 and we weren't really "dating" or anything so... Yea I think I'm bisexual and I am just so happy!!! We updated our facebook relationship status' and everything!!! I'm so excited!!! He's so sweet and kind and smart and understanding and funny. Whoo!!!
Congrats and make sure you take things slow! Relationships are always a learning experience (and especially since you are still figuring out your sexual orientation). Enjoy!
Okay so we've decided to get together during some weekdays and have picnics at my local park! I decided I want to make the food-cause I like making food! Before I mentioned picnics and we just said we should go to the park he said "I dont know what wed do, I dont think it matters though you're fun to be around. " Isn't that sweet!? And we're getting together with a friend June 1st. I'm happy!
Last edited by wolfgirl69; 05-13-2013 at 05:24 AM.
We were having a conversation and he passed out at around 3:50 in the morning LOL we were pulling an all nighter. I succeeded. And... well he tried haha
Just some unsolicited advice hun, but do try and slow down a little Sometimes (a lot of times) we get really excited when we start dating someone new, but we don't want to come off as overwhelming. A little bit of space can make the time together be even more enjoyable.
Just some unsolicited advice hun, but do try and slow down a little Sometimes (a lot of times) we get really excited when we start dating someone new, but we don't want to come off as overwhelming. A little bit of space can make the time together be even more enjoyable.
What am I doing wrong? Most of these things are his ideas. If it's about getting attention I was worried after getting some sleep he would realize he didn't like me. ....I was wrong
Last edited by wolfgirl69; 05-13-2013 at 12:46 PM.
Just some unsolicited advice hun, but do try and slow down a little Sometimes (a lot of times) we get really excited when we start dating someone new, but we don't want to come off as overwhelming. A little bit of space can make the time together be even more enjoyable.
I asked him and he said I am coming off a little intense. But he's okay with it because he knows it will wear off cause I'm just excited. I told him yea it will just give it a week. Thank you for pointing it out. I will try to be more aware. It's hard though. But I'll try
Last edited by wolfgirl69; 05-13-2013 at 01:06 PM.
OK, I don't want to come across mean but if I do I apologize in advance. I remember from other things that you have written that you don't have much social interaction with people your own age, and you have been lonely and craving this social interaction (especially romantic). I think it is wonderful that you have found someone to interact with. I know you have said you are gay/lesbian, I personally believe that human sexuality is kind of a sliding scale and for many people they can fall for a person regardless of their normal orientation.
All that being said, I want you to take some time and ask yourself if you like him romantically because you have that connection, or if you are so glad that someone likes YOU, and wants to be in that relationship with you, that you are forcing that connection within yourself.
I'm not advising not dating him or spending time with him or anything, just while spending time with him, and before you guys get to serious, make sure you want him and not just want to be wanted because the second type of relationship can be detrimental and damaging to both parties and is also deeply unfair to both parties who may be missing out on a better relationship for one like this.
You've mentioned before you have a therapist I think? Maybe talk about it with them?
My first relationship!!! First real boyfriend!!!
I'm so excited!!! He's so sweet and kind and smart and understanding and funny. Whoo!!!
