My advice is to just be yourself and try to not worry about the future. If it is meant to be, it will be, if not, there are other fish in the sea.
You seem like a lovely individual and I hope he thinks that too! Not to sound mothering, but don't do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable and be safe!
"You know how someone's appearance can change the longer you know them? How a really attractive person, if you don't like them, can become more and more ugly; whereas someone you might not have even have noticed... that you wouldn't look at more than once, if you love them, can become the most beautiful thing you've ever seen. All you want to do is be near them."
Sometimes love hits you like a bolt of lightening and sometimes it come slowly. If you like him just hang out with him and if it grows into something more than that fine and if it doesn't that's fine too!
I don't understand... You say you are gay, so it is obvious that you won't be attracted to him??? I am confused...
Anyways... You are still too young with everything coming to you. I would just be myself and let it be... If its meant to be, it will happen
Well I have a lot of issues. I am vulnerable and haven't been around people my very much for a very long time. I have this void and I guess I was aching for romance so I tried to use him to fill it. Does that make sense?
If you know that you are lesbian there is no way this will ever go beyond being a friendship. But if you have any doubts or are still trying to find out for sure then experiment. Just be honest in it. Tell him upfront it would be awful to lose a close friendship because of hurt feelings.
Well I have a lot of issues. I am vulnerable and haven't been around people my very much for a very long time. I have this void and I guess I was aching for romance so I tried to use him to fill it. Does that make sense?
I think that you need to work on yourself first, and then try to find somebody. I don't think it's healthy for you to try to "fill the voids" with people. I feel like you are setting yourself up to failure because you will be giving it all to make it work and the other person might not be the same way.
Go on the date and have fun, but don't try to hard and just be yourself. And again, work on you.
