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Old 12-31-2011, 08:36 PM   #46  
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To be clear I use condoms along with not letting a guy *** in me. So other than abstinence that is the best anyone can do. I am not making myself look bad this is what I do and it has worked for me so far. With the pill I know a lot of girls who take the pill like my cousin did it is not 99% effective even when taken correctly nothing is other then abstinence. She did misuse the pill by not waiting a full cycle before having unprotected sex but that is another story.
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This thread is just ugh. I hope one day you look in the mirror and realize that you really just don't seem like a nice person at all, sorry
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I may have naive thoughts when it comes to this subject so that is why I sound young. I earned my degree to say I just "have" one sounds like it is just something I got. lol
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This thread is just ugh. I hope one day you look in the mirror and realize that you really just don't seem like a nice person at all, sorry
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@sacha I agree, on this subject I am judgmental and I am not nice about the situation.
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I may have naive thoughts when it comes to this subject so that is why I sound young. I earned my degree to say I just "have" one sounds like it is just something I got. lol
having a degree isnt that big of a deal.its a great accomplishment yea, but one a lot of ppl have. off your high horse is what im saying.im working on getting two right now and theres a lot of ppl that don't have degrees that make a lot of money and are a lot smarter than many university grads.
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I really am just concerned about the child that's all. I just feel like with all the resources out there for girls why does this have to happen. Why can't girls wait until they are in a better position to be a mother and then if they want to have a child then that's great. I am not in the position right now to bring a child into this world and I would never think of doing it. I would give it up for adoption if that ever did happen to me.
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@charlaine09 I agree with everything you said about having a degree. I am not the one who brought up the subject of my degree, you are, I only mentioned it in my original post because I was saying she said congrats to me.
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the world isn't perfect, sh*t happens. you adjust and deal.
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To be clear I use condoms along with not letting a guy *** in me. So other than abstinence that is the best anyone can do. I am not making myself look bad this is what I do and it has worked for me so far. With the pill I know a lot of girls who take the pill like my cousin did it is not 99% effective even when taken correctly nothing is other then abstinence. She did misuse the pill by not waiting a full cycle before having unprotected sex but that is another story.
I've been on the pill for 10 years and I have never gotten pregnant. When done correctly it is a very good Contraceptive. While pulling out and using condoms are decent contraceptive methods, for you to think it won't happen to you is naive. What are you going to do with yourself if you end up pregnant and unmarried?

It is seems odd for someone so promiscuous to have such strong feeling against unwed mothers. One would think that person would be abstinate.


Like others, I think there is something greater going on that you need to deal with.


ETA: saw your post about adoption. You do seem to have hypocritical feelings about all this.
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@charlaine09 I agree with everything you said about having a degree. I am not the one who brought up the subject of my degree, you are, I only mentioned it in my original post because I was saying she said congrats to me.
i know but you seemed to use her not having one as a basis for her not being ready for a kid and the reason she shouldnt have one. alot of ppl dont have degrees but have kids and are doing just fine
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I did not use that as a basis charlaine09 I only mentioned it ONE TIME to say that I felt bad because she said congrats to me on something in my life and I did not say congrats to her on something in her life
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it kinda feels like you would prefer if ppl shunned your cousin as a w**re now and treated her badly to teach her a lesson not to get pregnant before its 'right'. lol like you wanna tar and feather her or something :P
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I just feel like if I can have sex and not a have kid why can't other girls do it. unless they are raped or something.
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I did not use that as a basis charlaine09 I only mentioned it ONE TIME to say that I felt bad because she said congrats to me on something in my life and I did not say congrats to her on something in her life
check your OP. you talk about her not finishing her degree in the context thats its a bad thing now with the baby
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