my parents were 17 and everyone pretty much hated me. my great aunt and uncle adopted me so i wouldnt end up on the streets. i dont know my biological family. they send me a card once a year with a generic merry christmas. i had an uncle i didnt know walk up to me on a bus stop when i was 15 and say to me everyone wishes you werent born no one wanted you you were the mistake, and walk away. it didnt bother me when i was young but the older i get the more it f**ks with my head. i never did sh** to deserve being tossed aside and 'ignored'. i hope with all my heart and soul that this baby doesn't end up as an adult with the same issues i have with my bios because of ppl like you.
my parents were 17 and everyone pretty much hated me. my great aunt and uncle adopted me so i wouldnt end up on the streets. i dont know my biological family. they send me a card once a year with a generic merry christmas. i had an uncle i didnt know walk up to me on a bus stop when i was 15 and say to me everyone wishes you werent born no one wanted you you were the mistake, and walk away. it didnt bother me when i was young but the older i get the more it f**ks with my head. i never did sh** to deserve being tossed aside and 'ignored'. i hope with all my heart and soul that this baby doesn't end up as an adult with the same issues i have with my bios because of ppl like you.
I am not jealous at all I am glad I am not in her situation I have even had an ex boyfriend tell me before that it takes years for a guy **ing in you for you to end up pregnant. sad some girls believe this. I just can't reward this type of stupidity
Actually if this child did end up like that it wouldn't be because of people like me because like I said before I would never tell my opinion as your uncle did. Also if my cousin had waited for the right time to bring a child into this world then this child would not have to go through that. so I don't see how it could be my fault.
I am not jealous at all I am glad I am not in her situation I have even had an ex boyfriend tell me before that it takes years for a guy **ing in you for you to end up pregnant. sad some girls believe this. I just can't reward this type of stupidity
In her situation? She is obviously happy with her 'situation' and doesn't need your approval. You are naive in a sense to think this won't happen to you. Evaluate what is truly bothering you and tackle it before it's too late.
@charlaine09 yes I do realize that, that is why I sad before that I use condoms
condoms have anywhere between a 82-98 percent effectiveness, they aren't perfect. the only way to never get accidently pregnant is to never have sex under any circumstances lol how many of us are honestly gonna be nuns for the rest of our lives
Last edited by CherryQuinn; 12-31-2011 at 08:31 PM.
With all the methods of birth control and all the education out there I don't see how a 21 year old(you are acting like that is an old enough age to make mature decisions) could make such a bad decision.
@charlaine09 yes I do realize that, that is why I sad before that I use condoms
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Originally Posted by j0lamo01
With all the methods of birth control and all the education out there I don't see how a 21 year old(you are acting like that is an old enough age to make mature decisions) could make such a bad decision.
She made a mature enough decision to keep and care for this baby while many other promiscuous females older than her use abortions as a method of birth control.
Last edited by MissGuided; 12-31-2011 at 08:37 PM.
@charlaine09 I was just responding to how you said that you can get pregnant anytime during sex. well using protection and not letting a guy *** in me has worked for me so far much better than the pill worked for my cousin.
lol a 21 year old is an adult. i made my own decisions at 21 for better or worse , no one helped me make them, they were all on me because im an adult.
@charlaine09 I was just responding to how you said that you can get pregnant anytime during sex. well using protection and not letting a guy *** in me has worked for me so far much better than the pill worked for my cousin.
so far is the key there
how old are you anyways you dont sound very old are you really old enough to have a degree? are you a virgin? cause it definetly doesn't sound like you know a tonne about what goes on sex or relationship wise. its cool if youre really young and a virgin and this is your older cousin, you dont need to say you have a degree and are promiscuous to hide that fact or anything. just wondering cause you sound real young
Last edited by CherryQuinn; 12-31-2011 at 08:36 PM.
sad some girls believe this. I just can't reward this type of stupidity
