How many of you believe texts and emails of a sexual nature (including naked pictures) constitutes as cheating?
My husband and I had a huge fight today unrelated to this, I tried to leave him and we ended up making up and having a wonderful day. Later on in the day he went to his friends house (he is there currently) and I discovered that he's been texting and even had a twenty minute phone conversation with a girl he had sex with once a long time ago before we met when I got on to pay my cell phone bill. I then began searching other things such as his email which he knows i have the password to, and that leads me to believe that on some subconscious level that he wants to get caught. I know he is not physically cheating on me... this girls lives very very far away. She also knows that he is married... they even spoke about me on their instant messaging conversation. He told her he loved me but that once in a while he missed having something "strange".
I've dealt with him doing this stuff for most of our three year marriage. He hasn't done it for a few months and a few days ago he started school and he has a long break between classes and he just started messaging all of his old girlfriends I gather out of mere boredom??? doesn't make any sense to me.
This is serious and I need some words of wisdom at the moment... considering telling him it's over when he gets home. We have a child. I don't know if it's worth ending a marriage over this???