I feel so sad.
I was just over at my boyfriends house when he went through his emails with me. He wanted to show me some funny fraud emails (people trying to get money via western union).
Anyway, I saw a folder that he made for a dating site. I asked him what it was. He said that he signed up years ago before we even met. However, I noticed that two of the emails had yesterday's date on it.
He accused me of receiving emails myself on Plenty of Fish (another dating site). I told him that I haven't logged in, in months. My profile even says that i have met the man of my dreams and POF does work and good luck with everybody out there.
We officially started dating on 11th December 2010.
He said that he only received messages and that it wasn't cheating, even though he updated his details yesterday. I asked him to see the emails. He then told me that he did reply, but it didn't mean anything. He was reluctant but then show me. I think he forgot that it was that flirtageous. In the email he flirts and tell the lady which sent him a message that she doesn't live far, and that he can jog over to meet her. The email was longer than this message and it was just flirt flirt flirt...
I was so shocked when I read that. I grabbed my handbag and through the tears I found my way to my car and drove home.
He didn't follow me. Just down the stairs in his house, but not past the door.
I deleted him from my Facebook, my skype and then i deleted his phone number.
Oh please help. Has this ever happened to you? Please share. How did you get through this. It hurts so much! But at the same time I am so angry when I think of the words he wrote.