So I thought I would share with all of you what has come about in this mess...
I am embarrassed to admit it, but he really didnt look at the porn.
My brother in law is an IT guy, and him and husband actually built the computer he uses. I called him to ask how all of this works because my husband denied with everything in him, being on those sites. We were able to look at the history on the browser to show the time the sites were visited and the duration the browser was on the page...
The website was visited at 19:36:32 (7:36pm) well.. we were at Bible Study from 7pm-8:45ish. It couldnt have been him. Also the durration for each page was less than one minute. My brother in law scanned for viruses and is working on the comp.
I feel completley awful because in all of my anger, I totally ranted and raved only about the past and thee negativity.
My husband did some very awful things, but this has been years ago. He has since given his life to GOD, and everyday we pray for strength in our marriage, and he prays for strength in his flaws. I am not making excuses, but my husband does have a lot of issues, he was sexual abused as a child (which could be the reason his count is so low). And had a very bad childhood. I am not saying that what he did was okay, but what I am saying is that he has issues, awknowledges them, and is trying very hard to work on them.
I feel like a fool. I should have investigated more before I made a big mess over this.
I so appreciate everyones responses and caring love. Such an amazing group of women here!