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Originally Posted by nationalparker
You know, I'm sure you don't want to read this, but Jess, this might be what you NEED - to get away from this situation for awhile. From your other posts, it seems like he just took advantage of you all the time - that it was more of a convenience thing for him since you handle everything - caregiving for his daughter, cleaning, cooking, etc. If he's that derogatory toward you, you need to step back and think why he would treat someone that way - we don't treat those we care for in that manner. I think he's enjoying someone there to do what he wants/needs, but isn't looking longterm anymore.
It will hurt to lose what you hope for in your future, but it sounds like you deserve so much more.
I agree X100000!!!
Even if he's hurt from the pain of the first relationship, he has no right to treat people the way it appears he's doing so to you.
My husband's previous marriage ended with his wife cheating and he was hurt for a long time. But, when we started dating, he knew I'm not her. I'm not going to make the same mistakes she did and therefore treats me accordingly!
A relationship doesn't mean one person is a doormat! Just remember that.