For a year while my friend's husband was deployed I was living with a friend and I was doing all the cooking. We were losing weight together and we were both doing great. I was losing faster because I was exercising and I'm 4 inches taller so while we were about the same weight, I carried mine a lot differently. Well, I moved out in September because he was coming home and three's a crowd (and I'm not particularly fond of the man). I just saw pictures of her from Christmas - only three months since I moved out - and she's gained all the weight back. It makes me sad for her because she was trying so hard and doing so well. I taught her how to cook right for herself and now all that work she did for almost a year is undone in the three months since he's been home. He's a big pasta, potato, crappy meat eater (doesn't like pork or turkey just red meats and some chicken). I know she's giving in to his fried fatty foods and bad eating and it makes me sad to see so much hard work undone so quickly. Is it really possible to gain nearly 30 pounds back in three months?
I know I can only take care of myself but when you've worked so hard to teach someone good habits, it's hard to see them lost so quickly.